woman WITHOUT HOME on FOOTPATH with CHILDREN?

A WOMEN WITH  CHILDREN ON A FOOTPATH UNDER A BROKEN TINSHED

HOW YOU FEEL WHEN YOU SAW A WOMAN WITH LITTLE FOUR TO FIVE CHILDREN ON A FOOTPATH. MANY ANSWERS WILL COME BUT MOST OF THE PEOPLE DONOT LIKE THESE TYPE OF QUESTIONS. THEY GENERALLLY SAYS WHAT A USELESS QUESTION AND NOT INTERESTED IN DEBATE.

MANY ORGANISTION IN THE WORLD RUNS MANY PROGRAMMES TO UPLIFT THESE PEOPLE FROM THIS SCENE; THEY GIVE INSTRUCTION TO COUNTRIES TO IMPLEMENT THE PROGRAMME AND COUNTRY GIVE INSTRUCTIONS TO STATES TO IMPLEMENT THIS. AND STATES GIVE INSTRUCTION TO INSTITUTIONS TO IMPLEMENT AND MOTIVATE THE PEOPLE TO HELP THEM. IT IS A GOOD THING TO RUN PROGRAMME LIKE THIS.

WOMEN AND CHILDREN FLEEING VIOLENCE NEED A STABLE AND SAFE PLACE TO GO WHERE THEY FEEL SECURE. IT IS, AFTER ALL, A TEMPORARY MEASURE TO HOUSE PEOPLE IN NEED WHILE THEY SEARCH FOR A MORE PERMANENT HOME. THEY ARE AS IMPORTANT AS OUR CHANDRAYAAN II MISSION. AND WHEN ONE WOMAN IS RAPED OR KILLED AFTER RAPE, IT IS JUST A FORCED SLAP ON OUR FACE AND TELLING YOU LOOK AT YOU, WHO ARE YOU, WHAT ARE YOU AND WHERE ARE YOU. IT TOTALLY SHATTERED OUR IMAGE THAT IS CREATED BY CHANDRAYAAN. 

SO WHAT CAN WE DO, CHANDRAYAAN TEAM DONE WELL, DEFENCE FORCES DOING WELL, ALL PERSON DOING THEIR JOB VERY SO THEN WHERE IS FAULT. IT IS THE DUTY OF LOCAL ADMINISTRATION. FOUND THE DEFAULTER AND MADE EXAMPLE OF HIM. IT’S IMPORTANT THAT THEY SHOULD HAVE A SAFE PLACE THAT ISN’T UNDER FIRE FROM THE PUBLIC. THAT ONLY LEADS TO HOMELESSNESS, WHICH IS NOT A GOOD SITUATION – ESPECIALLY IF THERE ARE CHILDREN INVOLVED. WHEN SAFE SPACES FOR WOMEN ARE PROVIDED IT OPENS THE VENUE FOR THE HARDER WORK TO BE TAKEN ON OF TACKLING DOMESTIC ABUSE AND SUPPORTING WOMEN IN REBUILDING THEIR LIVES. ANY AND ALL SUPPORT FOR THESE WOMEN AT RISK IS A GOOD STEP FORWARD AND THE SUPPORT OF OUR COMMUNITY GOES A LONG WAY IN ENSURING THE CONTINUITY TO MOVE FORWARD OUT OF TRAGEDY AND TRAUMA. BUT PRACTICALLY WHEN YOU FEEL THAT ITS BAD TO SEE THEM AND DECIDED TO HELP THEM. IT IS A GOOD THINKING BUT PRACTICALLY WHEN YOU DO THIS YOU WILL DEFINITELY FACE PROBLEMS LIKE:

·         FIRST YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS WILL NOT SUPPORT HERE, BECAUSE IN INDIA THERE IS NO SCOPE OF SOCIAL AWAKENING. EVERY BODY THINKS HOW TO COLLECT MORE AND MORE MONEY TO SAVE FOR HIM AND THEIR CHILDREN. NO BODY THINKS OF OTHERS FEELINGS AND SMALL NEEDS.

·         YOU’RE FRIEND’S CIRCLE AND RELATIVES ALSO NOT SUPPORT YOU HERE. THEY WILL TELL YOU DEFINITELY WHY ARE YOU TAKING TENSION IT IS NOT YOUR JOB AND THEY ARE NOT YOUR RELATIVES EVEN CHILDREN OR LADY.

·         YOUR FRIENDS IN OFFICE ALSO DID NOT HELP YOU HOW TO HELP THEM AND TO BRING THEM UP FROM THAT SITUATION.

·         NO BODY EVEN BUREAUCRAT, POLITICIAN, ANYBODY WILL HELP YOU 

SO HOW YOU HELP THEM. DEFINITELY YOU LEFT THIS PROJECT BUT YOUR THINKING WILL NOT CHANGE AND YOU ALWAYS THINK OF IT MANY TIMES. SO ONE AND ONLY ONE SOLUTION OF THIS JUST WAIT AND MAKE PLANS AND WHEN YOU IT IS THE RIGHT TIME TO COME OUT WITH FULL STRENGTH AND DO AS YOU WANT TO DO. BUT SOLUTION THAT WILL BE MADE ONLY BY YOU IN A VERY PLANNED MANNER, I GIVE YOU HINT, INTERNET, SOCIAL MEDIA HELPS YOU A LOT. SO START SURFING AND MODIFIED IDEAS ACCORDINGLY. WORK ON IT AND YOU WILL DEFINITELY GET RESULT AND IMPORTANT THING SATISFACTION AND HAPPINESS